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TIP #6: Be Her Eyecandy

A recent study from the University of Maryland found that because the genes for color vision are on the X chromosome, women have more color perception genes and are actually capable of seeing more colors than men. So if you are the kind of guy who doesn’t put much thought in dressing “colorfully,” or as her eyecandy, her visual monotony can cause her to be accustomed to you. Don’t let this happen to you.

New or novel stimuli are an important part of arousal--so the key is changing your look, reinventing yourself continually to ensure she's never getting used to who you are or how you look. Become her sex object - her object of desire. You are the man in the mirror. Try switching up your look - if you are a Brooks Brothers guy, put on your best Tommy Lee and see what comes of it. According to Neil Strauss's modern day Pick Up Artist Manual, women respond to "peacocking" - so go for a look that will attract her attention. Don’t be afraid to bust out oldies but goodies from the back of the closet.

Stay tuned next week for more tips!

XO.