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How to Keep Her Hot - a new weekly column for men by Melinda Gallagher, Founder of CAKE and Co-Author of The Hot Woman's Handbook.

TIP #4: Look at it from a new angle

When the same old sex positions seem tried and tired, bust out the Kama Sutra - the ancient Indian text from the third century - to sample some of the 64 illustrative, pleasure busting positions. There must be something you haven’t tried. The Kama Sutra wins hands down for espousing the exhaustive techniques for a woman's pleasurable experience during sex. Among its other attributes, the Kama Sutra, which means "pleasure treatise" is a literal step by step guide packed with detailed instructions for being in the moment with a partner. Along with practical education, i.e. she cups and lifts her buttocks with her palms while you wrap your ankle around your back, the Kama Sutra demonstrates how Indian culture integrated sexuality into everyday life, right along side religion, spirituality and all else that is beautiful in the ordinary world. It is unique in the way it discusses sexual pleasure without any hint of shyness or shame, a philosophy we could learn a lot from today.

Stay tuned next week for more tips!

XO.