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How to Keep Her Hot - a new weekly column for men by Melinda Gallagher, Founder of CAKE and Co-Author of The Hot Woman's Handbook.

TIP #2 - Back to Basics

Men are always asking, "What do women want?" This question always ridiculously simplistic and trite. Think about it, would you ever think to ask "What do men want?"...However, when asked what they want sexually, women are not shy to say - "Sucks, not licks", "A man who worships the ground that I walk on!" and "good clitoral stimulation". The first step to heating things back up is to pay attention to how her body works by keeping up to date with the latest scientific information on the female sexual anatomy. For instance, did you know that the clitoris is shaped like a wishbone. Who knew? All women have a pleasure system and that the clitoris is a much larger structure than the "little man in the canoe."

"There's nothing quite like the shape of a clitoris," said the Australian urologist, Dr Helen O'Connell, who is part of The Australian Doctor's Fund - a medical policy think tank researching the clitoris. "The glans are dense with nerve endings and receptors - all the vibration and sensation is there. The bulk of it is shaped like a pyramid, she says. Its base forms the external genitalia or vulva; its triangular "walls" are wrapped around the urine-carrying tube known as the urethra and the vagina. When aroused, the whole structure becomes engorged."

One of the best positions for you to stimulate her g-spot is the classic - wheelbarrow position on her back with her legs over her head. When the G-spot is stimulated, it swells so she won't be able to miss the increased pleasurable sensation. Since quality counts more than quantity here, when it comes time to get her off, pay attention to the entire pleasure system, not just one piece of the pie.

Stay tuned next week for more tips!

XO.