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Describe a fantasy or experience you have tried out. Was it successful, or unsuccessful?

Alexandra - 28 - Real Estate - New York City

I used a vibrator on myself with my partner. It was hot...I had a powerful orgasm and he liked watching me. After I came, he entered me (because he was already hard and turned on by watching me) and then he came. I'd say it was a success!

Kelly - 40 - Writer - Ohio

Light bondage thing was a fantasy. I had been thinking about what it might be like to have my hands tied--I liked the idea of being restrained from movement somewhat, but without pain. In reality, just as with most sorts of daydreaming that eventually gets brought into the real world, the practicalities were problematic. We couldn't get a good knot with the silk sash I wanted to use, for instance. And when my husband tried to pleasure me with my sex toys, he just didn't have a good knowledge of my anatomy and so didn't know what I wanted buzzing where. Then I had to give him directions, which kind of countermanded the whole submissive thing that was going on in my head. I'd say that I liked the hands tied thing, but it just didn't live up to my fantasy.

Rebecca - 27 - Grad Student - UK

The first threesome I had was with a couple, and it was great. No weirdness, and I think everyone was happy. Second one though - didn't enjoy it at all. My boyfriend really wanted to do it, as he had never had a threesome before, and the girl seemed nice enough so I was keen. However, as the situation progressed, she seemed to get really into him and just having sex, and I felt very sidelined, which wasn't cool. The worst part was that my boyfriend felt bad about just sleeping with her and leaving, so we ended up staying there and trying to sleep for awhile afterwards, with him in the middle of the two of us. I was feeling very insecure by this point, and it really bothered me. Afterwards, we talked about it a lot and if it happens again, there will definitely be some things done differently...

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