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These sensations are fantastic proof of just how aroused you are with your partner. Only true sexual arousal gets the front of the vagina enlarging and contracting. Present day MRI scans show exactly how the anterior vaginal wall changes during arousal . The inner 2/3 lengthens and the outer 1/3 has regular contractions. It is also proven to be relatively sensitive to electrical stimuli.

The bladder and the tube for urine to the outside of the body, the urethra, sit just in front of the anterior vaginal wall. An expert (and he certainly sounds it!) knows that these specific parts form an integral part of our orgasmic reflex. Surrounded by erectile tissue, they're sensitive and become engorged during arousal. So much for the upside - this all means though that your fear is well founded; it is possible that you will lose control and leak some urine, if you let yourself go. Let's concentrate on how you can separate out, dispel some of your individual fears and keep your mind on enjoying yourself. For instance, how would it be to go on a solo test drive, maybe with the right tools? Or, confidentially, empty your bladder before sex, assuring yourself that any slight leak would be too small to notice amongst all the other juices. Talking about your fears with your partner might make it a shared (lack) of concern, rather than let it build up in you. Hope you get past Go!