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Just as most men wouldn't turn down a blowjob, us girls will happily accept some “lip-to-lip” service. There are countless tales of wagging tongues. The mouth is the perfect tool to stimulate the clitoris -- it’s not too hard, not too soft, with just a flick of the tongue and a purse of the lips it can move quickly but gently.

The old adage – “not now, honey, I have a headache” – is simply a joke these days. Giving pleasure to our partners is less a chore, than an excuse for us to get turned on. We reach into a man's boxer shorts, lick our lips with our jaw dropping open slightly, and put into motion a power dynamic that immediately fuels desire in our own crotch.

The blowjob is the ultimate act of pure dominance and subtle submission. Forget bondage—giving head is pure power exchange. Collectively, the lips and tongue are servant, subject, and parishioner. The blowjob is all about sexual “usage” - your mouth on a cock is being used for pleasure. On the other hand, (and often the hand is involved) it’s the giver that holds all the power.

Stacey (29) has found that guys like it best when she uses one hand to pump the base of the penis while she varies her sucking technique at the tip – long and slow or swirling it around the head. She then takes as much of the penis in her mouth as she can and then goes upwards, sucking the entire time while she twirls her tongues and twists her head back and forth. To make him come, she speed up this technique – pumping with her hand and sucking up and down until BOOM!

Blowjobs - my favorite! The way I love to give head is with a glass of sorbet and a cup of hot tea nearby. This way I can make my mouth cold and hot. So I suck it a few times with the sorbet in my mouth. This makes him crazy and then I have a sip of tea and give him some heat. Try massaging about a thumb's length from the back of the balls where you can usually feel a tiny indentation. (Charlene 33)

The more Jeanna (28) knows her partner, the better the blowjob. She finds the ice cream cone licking technique works well for her for the tip of the penis, the shaft and the zone underneath. Depending on the size of the penis, she’ll sometimes go for some deep throating, by taking as much of it in her mouth as she can, then letting it back out for a few licks. She likes to grab the base and the testicles with her hand while she licks while looking at her partner in the eye from time to time.

So there you have it folks - despite the argument to the contrary that giving blowjobs is an act of submission and doing so makes you a victim of the evil patriarchy, there are indeed those of us who actually like to lick some cock from time to time.

Jeez - when are we going to stop being our own worst enemies and get on with it?