Cake

Please, please, please do us a favor and go get yourself a vibrator - now, yes we mean right now. Then lay back, relax and place the vibrator directly on your clit and let it do its magic.

Let me be perfectly clear that there is absolutely, positively no mistaking an orgasm. There is an explosive release that surprises even the tried and true orgasm veterans every time because of how damn good it feels. From a technical perspective, the big “O” in "orgasm" is actually the physical release of sexual tension that has built up, and boy does that release feel so good! Overall, having an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable, indulgent and important experiences a woman can have.

When you’ve increased the speed and intensity of your own masturbation technique, and your ready to pull your mental trigger, there are a few physical triggers to tack onto the process. The combination of muscle tension and breathing bring varied results, and affect the way an orgasm feels. Lots of women say that clenching, squeezing and tensing helps them to go from a state of turned on to getting off. By paying attention to what you feel like when you orgasm, and how you get there you can add variety to your orgasms.

Remember, the orgasm is not a passive body function. It is causative, and you have a lot of control over when and how you come. You can tense up your whole body until you come, or try coming with your body completely relaxed and breathing through any muscle tension. See what happens when you hold your breath as you begin to come, or continue taking deep breaths all the way through your orgasm.

There’s a sharp contraction of pleasure and then rhythmic throbbing, mostly concentrated within your clitoris, vagina and uterus. You feel anywhere from 5 to 12 synchronized contractions of the uterine, vaginal, anal and lower abdominal muscles for about 10 seconds. Your nipples will become erect and you will have a hard time keeping your eyes open. And, oh yeah, it feels really, really outstanding, exquisite, remarkable - like waves of pleasure rolling through your body!

Love,
Melinda for CAKE