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The very notion of a woman desiring not one, but two men at her disposal, implies a strong desire for control and pleasure. It makes perfect sense really - that women like you would want to explore new horizons of possibility. Who can't get with the program of - "Come hither boys and cater to my every whim." What fun!

Here's a tip – meet the boys in the “locker room,” woman-to-man-to-man, before game time and discuss some relevant plays This sportfuck is a team game. No cowboys or heroes need apply. The better the boys can function as one the better your experience will be. That takes pre-game consulting and subtle in-the-field communication that distracts you as little as possible. It's a really good idea to discuss before hand what both you and they feel comfortable with what is about to go down. For example, if you want all the attention, you are setting up a situation where you are the "bottom" (receiving all the lovin') and the two men are the "tops" (administers of the lovin'.) A seamless, back and forth trade between different pleasure-makin' roles will make a huge difference.

Two men and you makes for a really long and intense session, the buzz from which lasts for much longer and will bring you back to being turned on for days after. The two guys must know at the outset if you want all the attention and/or if you want the boys to play together too (even just a little) while you help out with the action. You must be verbally clear on this as well to prevent misunderstandings. Once that's established, ask permission as you move through different acts. Especially if it's the first time for the three of you. People have been known to change their minds.

Let them know you are interested by asking them both out together. Pick a spot that you like and invite them both to join you for a drink. Think of it as a first date where you are testing out the chemistry between the group. If one guy gets you hot, but the other leaves you a little cold, does the idea of the two of them together turn you on? Can you make one your main squeeze and can the other be a side-attraction?

While they may also be hesitant to have mutual friends find out about your three-way connection, there's no way to be sure they can keep a secret. Remember – during the beginning of her career, tabloids exposed Madonna's stint as a nude model. Her response? "So what." Good luck and let us know how it all goes down.

Love,
CAKE

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