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CAKE Bite - Natural HighsBy CAKE, Section CAKE Bite
[Parts of this editorial have been excerpted from >
A Piece of CAKE: Recipes for Female Sexual Pleasure Chapter Two – Rock Your Body and Reap the Rewards” – all rights reserved]
While prince charming will always make our panties wet, and a loving relationship is a big turn on – female arousal is not always dependent on romance. In fact, it may not even be dependent on a man – or even a woman! When we are open to what turns us on, sometimes arousal can even take us by surprise while sitting at work, working out or hanging at home. Jessica (32) gets turned on by the darndest things. Some are outright sexy, like reading erotica before bedtime, and self love sessions in front of her bathroom mirror in the morning before work, while others are quite benign like her post work bathing ritual. Arousal to her is as natural as sipping her “organic blend of Pete's coffee each morning.” Understanding your sexual functioning and your natural highs are the first steps to help you to get more pleasure…
When we are aroused, blood rushes to our breasts and genitals. Muscle tension builds up throughout the entire body and continues to build until we have an orgasm and the tensions releases. Experientially speaking, we get tingly, wet and hot. In the process, the clit and our other erectile tissue wakes up and stands at attention! Yes, in fact women get “wood” – just like the boys.
In several studies, women who watched erotic videos showed physical signs of arousal, but didn't even mentally realize they were raring to go. How absurd is that? Psychologists think this is because the women's minds weren't in tune with their bodies. Enough – Let’s get tuned in. Pleasure Tip: Pay close attention to the things that make you wet and warm. Respect your erection – there is no denying its presence, heck why should you? It is there for a reason – “it” wants to get off. Sure, we don’t have a large long handle that points straight out and says “hey, I’m here, pay attention to me,” but if you think there are no arousal signs for women, it’s only because you are not lookin’. Physically, the signs are just as hard to ignore. There’s wetness, tingling, warmth, itching, acceleration of heartbeat, and lightness of body all of which can come over us with hardly any heads up.
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