I love your book and wanted to congratulate you on its impressive debut!  I have been devoted to my Hitachi magic wand for quite some time now, courtesy of my lovely roommates who bought me my first vibrator for my 22nd birthday.  I am now 25.  

Reading your book made me realize that I am not satisfied with the intensity of my orgasms.  I have fleeting, minute contractions that I subconsciously resist because of fear of losing control.  I get afraid of the sensation and ever so slightly change my position such that the orgasm gets squelched.  Needless to say, I'm not having orgasms during intercourse (with my very supportive boyfriend) either.  It's quite frustrating.  Any ideas on meditation techniques or other ways to get my brain to stop ruling my life?

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