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Sex Worker Visions II opens May 1st at Arena Studios, NYCBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
On Tuesday, May 1st - come out to get boozed up, check out sex worker art, and meet Annie Sprinkle!
What: Sex Workers Visions II, curated by Audacia Ray and co-sponsored $pread Magazine, Arena Studios, and the SoHo Arts Council In $pread magazine's second annual art show, sex workers with an artistic bent step up and tell their stories visually. The show includes art by Annie Sprinkle, Zak Smith, Genevive Zacconi, and Vena Virago, in addition to illustrations and photographs that have appeared in $pread magazine, as well as a special opening night exhibition of hand-decorated dildos by sex workers. At events around the United States and Canada, sex workers have gathered at sex-positive sex toy shops to paint, decorate and possibly mutilate dildos for inclusion in Sex Worker Visions II. Sponsored events occurred at Early 2 Bed in Chicago, Comes As You Are in Toronto, Adam and Eve sponsored a group of sex workers in Cleveland, and Vibrator.com sponsored a $pread event at Arena Studios in New York. Cycle Savvy: The Smart Teen's Guide to the Mysteries of Her Body by Toni WeschlerBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
Cycle Savvy: The Smart Teen's Guide to the Mysteries of Her Body Remember those fun sex-ed classes we all were required to attend - the girls in one class, the boys in the other? While we are not exactly sure what happened in the boys’ room, for us girls the entire world of female sexuality was contained in menstrual kits. Puberty sucks! Two-dimensional pictures of the uterus looked more like a cow's head with fallopian tubes for ears and horns than a part of our bodies. Boring at best, scary at worst. Pretty pink pads in Ziploc bags, and off we go to recess. Thank goodness young women today do not have to be in the dark. Cycle Savvy: The Smart Teen's Guide to the Mysteries of Her Body, a book aimed at young women by Toni Weschler the same author of the hit book "Taking Control of your Fertility" targeted to older women, that the mystery out of the female body and gives teenage and young 20-something women good, solid information about their bodies. The book presents young women with information about their periods including why they happen, what might cause PMS, and how you can chart your fertility cycle to better get to know your body. Of course, the book has some people all up in a huff in the “how much should we tell teenagers about sex" debate. Our take? Research and (common sense btw) has shown that providing accurate and comprehensive information to adolescents about reproduction and sexuality only makes their decision-making more responsible. And aghast, contrary to what those abstinence-only freakers say doing so does not lead to more sex. But in fact, arming teens with information that they need is the right thing to do if you want to reduce unwanted pregnancies, to increase healthy behavior and to empower women’s sexuality. Seal of Disapproval: British women hoping to increase their sex drives can now get a new prescription patch that some people refer to as a "female V-pill." Oh goody, goody. Called Intrinsa it's a transparent, egg-shaped patch that you wear below your belly button and change twice a week. It releases a low dose of testosterone, which presumably helps boost flagging sex drives that can be caused by menopause or hysterectomies. Umm hello? Women do not need to reach for a drug or a patch to increase their sexual pleasure. Please, this is some of the same old, same old, let’s make a buck by making women feel like they have a medical problem where one does not exist. The often cited statistic that 43% of women experience female sexual dysfunction is total hogwash. In fact, the FDA in the U.S. vetoed Intrinsa because of untested safety concerns. Plus women on the drug reported four instead of three satisfying encounters per month, the hormone patch must be applied for weeks and months consistently and most of all research shows NO correlation between low desire and low hormone levels so why would women need a hormone patch to increase it? Listen up - Your sexuality does not end as you age, get married, have children etc. And why would it - you don’t stop eating after fifty so why should you stop have orgasms? In truth, the desire to have sex at any age has more to do with your psychological and emotional well being rather than your hormone levels. For more CLICK HERE! Who Doesn't Love a Sexy Feminist Book Reading!By CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
Thursday, April 5th @ 7PM - Free
Reading: Jennifer Baumgardner "Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics" Look Both WaysBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
In her new book - Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics - one of our favorite writers and activists, Jennifer Baumgardner makes a convincing case for bisexuality to finally come out of the closet. Using her own experiences as a guide, Baumgardner refreshening looks at female bisexuality, not as a by product of pleasing men that usually accompanies the term, nor as a means to an end, but as a legitimate and important evolution in women's feminist consciousness and sexual freedom. In the book, Baumgardner gives bisexuality its long overdue place at the sexual orientation table. As we write in the "Straight as a ruler?" chapter of The Hot Woman's Handbook, women are actively exploring sexual experiences with other women in a host of different combinations, with various methodologies, and philosophies. There are women who think about getting it on another woman while in happily monogamous relationships with men, newly single women who engage in no strings attached make out sessions with female friends, and women who mostly “do” men but who have had female sexual partners and would again. Baumgardner
gives credence to the importance of woman on woman interactions and relations
above and beyond the same old staid argument that somehow we are doing
so because we are brainwashed to think we must. That argument assumes
that there is nothing of value in pursuing relationships with both genders.
Maybe we should play "Ask the bisexual?" to figure out what
is so hot about being attracted to and attract by another woman...wait
let's not, but you get the point. Instead go check out "look Both
Ways" for the real deal.
Also - check out this review of Look Both Ways from the NY Times:
Seal of Disapproval: And now for our first ever "Seal of Disapproval." Yes, the distinguishable honor goes to Laura Sessions Stepp author of "Unhooked: How Young Women Pursue Sex, Delay Love and Lose at Both." Besides the insidiously antiquated title, this book wins hands down for being the most insulting read to come at women in a long time. The basic premise that Stepp puts forth here is one that harkens back to the "good old days" when men were men and women were, well, sexual servicers to those men. Ah yes, aren't you just all nostalgic...? We think not. Based on her reporting over the years for The Washington Post and a 2-year study of 9, yes a whole nine!, girls ages 15-21 years old, Stepps concludes that all women are hooking up instead of "properly" dating and giving it up to the boys - with their uncontrollable libidos - just too damn easy. This assumption that sex is something that women give up to tame their men is offensive to both women and men alike. Calling the hooking up culture, "gravy for guys" misses the point entirely and gives men way too much power when it comes to sex. When is the older generation going to put it together - using your sexual power wisely includes opening up the door to women's choices and these choices include our right to hook-up, date, be career focused and everything in between. So stop telling us we are not liberated enough for you and get off our backs. (1 comment) Comments >> Erin Cressida WilsonBy emily, Section Seal of Approval
The Erotica Project (co-author) Secretary (screenplay) and the upcoming: Fur: An Imaginary Portrait of Diane Arbus (screenplay) As a woman, what is it about James Spader that you find sexy? Most men I know don't really get his appeal. James Spader is unbelievably hot. Aside from being very good looking, having very kissable lips and teeth, and great hair that you want to put your fingers through, he has hands that you want to grab you and hold you. He has that "ice stare" that is both sadistic and vulnerable; and about all else, he is a concentrated, obsessed, and incredible actor. He makes you feel like if he were looking at you, nothing else in the world would matter. He's perfect to play opposite the assertive submissive. I think the reason that men sometimes cannot figure out his appeal and that women find him so incredible, is that he plays best as the object of a film- the object of desire - rather than the subject. He is not the typical male hero/protagonist. He is made for women. Femininity versus Feminism: The Female ThingBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
The Female Thing: Dirt, Sex, Envy, Vulnerability
Femininity -- which Kipnis defines as "tactical: a way of securing resources and positioning women as advantageously as possible on an uneven playing field, given the historical inequalities and anatomical disparities that make up the wonderful female condition" -- seeks to ameliorate all these disadvantages by "doing what it took to form strategic alliances with men." But that means that femininity "hinges on sustaining an underlying sense of female inadequacy," which puts it in opposition to the goals of feminism. Doesn't that strike you as a shame? The goal of feminism has always been to gain equality. The fact that women embrace their femininity, i.e., what makes us uniquely women, while we achieve equality is not in oppostion to feminism - it is the result of feminism. Naughty Film FestivalBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
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CineKink NYC @ Anthology Film Archives Check out Chick Flicks - a collection of explicit, female-intended works debunking the silly notion that women aren't visually responsive - and giving proof that "what they want" from porn isn't necessarily all about soft, gauzy focus and rose petals. Program includes excerpts taken from the "Happy Endings" series, which recreates female sexual fantasies, from the "Coming Home" compilation of porn created by-and-for dykes and - hot from the UK! - naughty tales from the "A&O Department," a unique British hospital where women call all the shots. Friday, October 20th - 8:30 pm For more information, complete screening schedule and advance tickets, visit Cinekink. CAKE cameosBy CAKE, Section Seal of Approval
CAKE makes cameo appearances under the covers of two new books. Em and Lo's Rec Sex
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